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Writer's pictureMelissa Alexander

The Pursuit of Happiness.

Good morning and Happy Mental Health Day! As we celebrate this important day, I want to spread positivity by discussing one of life's greatest aspirations - happiness. In this blog, I'll explore the concept of happiness, its definition, and why it can sometimes be challenging to achieve. So grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and let's dive into the fascinating world of happiness!


Definition of Happiness What does happiness mean to you? How do you define it? To put it simply, happiness is a state of being or showing pleasure and contentment. It involves having a sense of confidence and satisfaction with ourselves and the world around us. When I searched the definition of happiness on Google, It described that happy people are warm, considerate, respectful, helpful, and pleasant to be around. They refrain from indulging in envy, jealousy, or gossip, and instead focus on positivity and what is working in their lives. Above all, happy people smile often. :)


Our Desire for Happiness Ask yourself, what do we all truly want in this world? I do believe that the answer is happiness. We all desire to experience true and lasting happiness in our lives. It sounds simple enough, right? Yet, why is it so challenging for many of us to reach that state of happiness?


The Challenges in Pursuit of Happiness At first glance, the path to happiness seems straightforward - be warm, considerate, and respectful, also surrounding ourselves with positivity. Happy people exude contentment and confidence, loving themselves and treating others with kindness and respect. They understand that negative self-talk breeds envy, jealousy, and gossip, creating barriers to true happiness. How can one truly be happy if they allow such negativity into their lives?


The Importance of Compassion and Non-Judgment Happy people possess a deep sense of compassion for others. They recognize that every individual navigates through life with a unique set of emotions and struggles. Even if they don't particularly like someone, they choose not to engage in gossip or spread negativity. Happy people understand that individuals may have their own battles and that it is not for us to judge. They find contentment within their own lives and do not feel jealous of others or what they possess. They have realized that happiness is a choice and obtaining it can be challenging.


The Struggle for Happiness It's fascinating how almost every person I've worked with, every client I've encountered, expresses a desire for happiness. When I ask clients if they could have anything in the entire world, what would it be? 99% of the time the answer is "To be happy"So why is it so hard for us, as human beings, to achieve this seemingly universal goal? Why do we struggle to love ourselves, to be warm, considerate, and respectful? What holds us back from reaching that place of genuine happiness?

As we reflect on Mental Health Day, let's recognize that the pursuit of happiness is a complex journey. It requires self-reflection, compassion, and a conscious choice to focus on the positive aspects of life. It may not always be easy, but it is undoubtedly worth it. So, let's continue to uplift and support one another on this path to happiness, cultivating a world where warmth, consideration, respect, and self-love thrive. Together, we can overcome the challenges and create a brighter, happier future for ourselves and those around us.

Alongside this blog, I will be sharing an empowering audio recording that will guide you towards creating more awareness and leading a happier life. By committing to listening to this recording for a minimum of 21 consecutive days, you will begin to notice the profound impact it has on your life. Remember, true transformation is possible. For a more personalized and rapid approach, consider booking a one-on-one session for a specialized Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) Hypnotherapy Session to uncover any block you may have to achieve a happier YOU! Stay tuned and get ready to grasp onto the happiness that is within your reach!



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